Today's devotional reading came from Isaiah 51:16 (NIV)
I have put my words in your mouth and covered you with the shadow of my hand — I who set the heavens in place, who laid the foundations of the earth,and who say to Zion, 'You are my people.'"
The text challenged me to think about the shadow I cast. Who am I influencing and what kind of influence is it? My immediate thought for those in my realm of influence was my children. They see what I do or don't do and hear what I say or don't say.
I try to follow the rule if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything. I admit some days I do better than others; all too often I let the stress or chaos get to me, and I say not so nice words. Words that could not be used at all or a more suitable substitute used and the meaning of what I'm expressing still very clearly understood.
I know someone who has let curse words become a standard part of their language. I often cringe when I hear them speak. However, it has made me become more aware of my choice of words. Today's devotional reading has illuminated that this person is in my realm of influence and as a Christian I need to cast a positive, encouraging shadow. I need to in love approach this person and let them know that the shadow they are casting is not one that is encouraging, uplifting, or simply even nice. Words can hurt, and that simply making the choice to not use profanity can cast a shadow that doesn't darken.
I want to thank friends, both new and old, for casting positive, uplifting shadows on me and either knowingly or unknowingly helping me grow in all aspects of my life.